I’m Sander T. Jones. I’m a clinical social worker - psychotherapist. I have a virtual practice where I provide therapy to people in Georgia, South Carolina, and Florida. I also have an office for face-to-face sessions in southwest Atlanta. And I’m the author of Cultivating Connection: A practical guide for personal and relationship growth in ethical non-monogamy.

As you may have guessed, I’ve built my practice around helping people who practice consensual non-monogamy, people in the LGBTQ+ communities, people in the kink/BDSM and Leather communities, and people doing voluntary sex work.

I myself am a non-binary transmasculine person. I lived as a lesbian most of my adult life. I’m polyamorous and live with my wife, my other partner, and her wife (my metamour), two of our octogenarian mothers, and two adorable pups. Most of my polycule and family of choice either are, or have been, in the kink or Leather communities, myself included.

Clinically, I specialize in treating trauma, complex trauma, anxiety, OCD, and depression. I help people explore gender identity, help people cope with, resist, and fight oppression, and I do relationship counseling.

Interpersonal trauma and trauma resulting from systemic oppression are pervasive. Healing the impact of those traumas, as well as other mental health struggles, takes skill and care.

I began this journey many years ago as a young person with extensive trauma. I had good therapists, and others who were not. I decided to never be a passive, sounding-board kind of therapist. I am actively involved in directing my clients’ healing journeys.

I also provide coaching services for people in any location.